I think it’s important to acknowledge being That Girl is impossible, really. We’re all going to forget to take our vitamins or fail to stay out of drama or leave our journals untouched for months. Trying to be that perfect can get toxic if you’re not careful. But there are many, many ways you can get closer to a better version of yourself, which is the whole point! Going to therapy, increasing your water intake, partaking in some self-reflection, or taking the time to map out your five-year plan are all great first steps. If you’re not sure where to start, here are 10 books to read to become That Girl. If you’re on a That Girl productivity kick, here are 9 of the best productivity books for when you’re mentally exhausted! But, if you’re more into the self-care aspects of That Girl, try these self-care books for anxious times.